Small Rituals, Big Comforts

Most mornings begin the same way, and I find comfort in that. Whether I’m in the office that day or working from home, it always starts by brewing a pot of coffee. While it starts to percolate, I step outside for a few minutes to feel the sun on my face while our dog, Marjie, runs around in the grass. I try to take my time and not rush through my morning routine and do my best to savor it before the busyness of the day sets in.

Romanticizing My Workdays

On the days a week that I work from home, I change into something comfortable, and turn an ambiance room on my TV. I settle down at my desk, which is really just a drop-leaf table that doubles as our dining table and sits in front of a large picture window. I work in the light that streams through the curtains. When it’s time to take a lunch break, I put my laptop away and set the table for my meal. I take the time to enjoy my meal and the brief respite from a busy day, and sometimes watch a few minutes of a favorite comfort TV show before bringing my computer back out. Just before the workday ends, I jot down the next day’s to-do list in my carefully chosen notebook before packing everything away in my work tote — an oversized tote bag with a cheerful pattern that always makes me smile — to prepare for being in the office the next day.

When I’m in the office, I try my best to create the same sense of comfort and coziness I feel when I work from home. My daily commute is not one I particularly enjoy, so I treat myself to a podcast or audiobook I only allow myself to listen to on my way to and from the office. Instead of the throw blanket I keep near my “desk” at home, I hang a super soft, worn-in cardigan draped along the back of my chair, ready go grab when the air conditioning begins to feel frigid. Much like at home, my office desk is next to a window, though it offers little sunlight to work from. Two table lamps fill the small space with a warm glow and provide me with plenty of light. Gentle instrumental music plays on my computer’s speakers all day long. A candle warmer helps fill the room with a soft scent. When the weather permits, I take my lunch to the park that’s just a short walk away and read while I enjoy being out in the sun. On my desk sits a luxurious hand lotion that a dear friend brought back with her from a trip to Australia, and I delight in breathing it in whenever I apply it.

No matter where I’m working, I’ve learned that the difference between just getting through the day and truly experiencing it often lies in the smallest details — the softness of a sweater, the ritual of lighting a lamp, the comfort of familiar music playing quietly in the background. These things don’t change the tasks at hand, but they do change the way I meet them.

Romanticizing my workdays isn’t about pretending they’re always peaceful or perfect. It’s about choosing to notice the beauty tucked inside the ordinary. A cup of coffee savored instead of gulped. A well-loved tote bag that feels like a companion. A few quiet minutes in the sun, alone but not lonely.

These are the choices that remind me that even on the busiest days, I’m allowed to feel cozy, cared for, and connected—to my work, my space, and myself.

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