On a Sunday morning not too long ago, I was sitting at the coffee table with a cup of tea and notebook, my heart feeling extra nostalgic. I never know what I’m going to end up writing about on Sunday mornings; all I’m sure of is that when my pen hits the paper, my heart opens instantly.
I decided to take a little trip down memory lane and wrote about cherished memories – magical moments I never want to forget. I remembered the songs I wrote at 2 a.m., the faces in audiences I’ve played to, the beautiful people I’ve met. I revisited easy afternoons, singing in the car with friends and taking neighborhood walks. I also recalled more difficult moments – the shaky hands on stage, silent prayers I said so I wouldn’t forget the lyrics, second guessing myself, and the introvert in me nearly terrified of unfamiliar situations I found myself in. As I recalled these moments of uncertainty, I stopped mid-sentence and jotted down these words:
“You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
How beautiful: the notion that not only can anyone do what they think they cannot do, but that they must. In moments of self-doubt, this simple thought has given me the gifts of courage and reassurance. Upon jotting down that quote, my trip down memory lane took a turn. I found myself writing about Eleanor, realizing the heart of her wisdom and recalling what I’ve learned from her. The following are words filled with kindness, encouragement, and intelligence – filled with lessons that anyone can benefit from. I truly hope you find as much solace and inspiration in them as I do.
1.“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
2. “Do one thing every day that scares you.”
3. “Do what you feel in your heart to be right – for you’ll be criticized anyway.”
4. “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”
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5. “Never allow a person to tell you no who doesn’t have the power to say yes.”
6. “It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.”
7. “We do not have to become heroes overnight. Just a step at a time, meeting each thing that comes up, seeing it as not as dreadful as it appears, discovering that we have the strength to stare it down.”
8. “I am who I am today because of the choices I made yesterday.”
9. “Nothing has ever been achieved by the person who says, ‘It can’t be done.’”
10. “Be confident, not certain.”
11. “You not only have a right to be an individual. You have a responsibility.”
12. “With the new day comes new strength.”
13. “It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness.”
14. “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.”
15. “You can often change your circumstances by changing your attitude.”
16. “You have to accept whatever comes, and the only important thing is that you meet it with the best you have to give.”
17. “Life was meant to be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life.”
What Eleanor Roosevelt quote is your favorite? Leave a comment below and share or tweet us @BellaGraceMag!
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“It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness.”
This ER quote especially resonates with me today, when Brussels has been attacked. How much easier to curse the darkness than to try to be positive and hopeful…..But what kind of a world/life/way to live is that? Let’s all be candle lighters and pray for peace and better days to come.
xo Suzanne
I love that quote as well. Eleanor’s wisdom is timeless. Thank you for sharing positivity ♥
The first quote, right off the bat, got me! That will have to be my personal motto. I am very impressed with your writing, Hayley, and can’t believe that you are only 23. That you have found your own path in life, and seem unafraid to pursue your dreams, is truly a gift! May you be happy in your life ahead, and don’t ever regret a decision you made/make.
Isn’t it a wonderful one?! I tend to keep it as the wallpaper on my phone so that I’m reminded of it everyday. Thank you for the kind words! Although I try my best to be unafraid in pursuit of my dreams, it actually is quite scary! I’m grateful for simple quotes like these that offer such wisdom & encouragement! ♥
I believe lyrics (and music) are akin to soul vitamins. Your music is beautiful and your topic is brilliant. I love seeing Eleanor’s wise words stacked in this post. My favorite?
“Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.” Eleanor Roosevelt
Hayley Solano, you radiate Joy!
Thank you for the lovely words! That is a BEAUTIFUL quote! To be honest, I don’t think I’ve heard it before – thank you for sharing it ♥
Eleanor Roosevelt was an amazing and I believe heroic person. She survived heartache and came out on top – a woman to be admired and respected. It’s hard to choose a favorite quote, but today, with yet another terrorist attack, I’m drawn to #16 – “You have to accept whatever comes, and the only important thing is that you meet it with the best you have to give.”
I agree! I love that one as well – all of her words are so full of wisdom & inspiration!
So many beautiful quote by Eleanor. Lovely post.
Love Love and appreciate the Eleanor Roosevelt Quotes and Posting. Thank you so much!
“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.”
Discuss how to solve problems instead of rehashing what happened and who is at fault. And please use your mind and energy for something much more elevating than gossip about other people!
I kept saying, as I was reading the quotes: “She said that!?” I was surprised by so many of them which I had heard of coming from her. Thank you for sharing.
#1. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” I have always felt this quote to be my go-to mantra to sustain what I believe to be the most important virtue….integrity.
Those quotes are to live by good!!
Thank you for inspiring me always.
3. “Do in your heart what you feel to be right–for you’ll be criticized anyway.”
It is especially important to know this as I volunteer so many hours working on various campaigns prior to the upcoming election. I might as well do what I feel to be right.
What a brilliant mind
Do one thing everyday that Scare’s you
Every step is walking with peace. If one cannot foresee that, it is living uneasiness. For me, the First Lady’s most inspirational quote would be: Yesterday was history, tomorrow is a mystery, yet today is a gift that’s why it is called a present.” Anyone who miss the now surely miss everything else in life..
Quote 15
” I once had a rose named after me and I was very flattered. But I was not pleased to read the description in the catalogue: no good in a bed, but fine up against a wall.”
i was told eleanor roosevelt had a saying, “people cant make you feel a certain way unless you let them”…so i googled it…came across this website…and today is even better than yesterday and definitely will be a path to seek peace for every tomorrow to come.
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