When I was growing up, staying home from school for a sick day often felt like a little treat. I was lucky enough to have a mom who stayed at home and doted on me, making me a special bed on the couch where I could enjoy comforting food and drinks while watching those fun game shows that were only on TV during the day. As I’ve grown older, sick days can feel like less of a treat because there is always so much to get done.
When I finally do admit defeat and decide to stay home from work, I still often find myself checking emails and feeling guilty for all the time I’m “wasting.” How can I justify just doing nothing? It’s never really come as a surprise that it takes a long time for whatever bug I’m fighting to finally leave my system. If only I could just rest, perhaps I’d feel better sooner. And when I found myself under the weather a couple weeks ago, I did just that.
And it worked.
I didn’t just rest, however. I decided to make the most of my time at home and re-created those sick days from my childhood. I made up a little bed on our couch in front of our TV and happily gave my husband my list of things to get me from the store.
Photo by Cris Romagosa
I changed into my coziest pair of pajamas, settled under my favorite blanket, and perused the digital guide to find something to watch. Of course, I quickly landed on The Game Show Network and was transported back to my childhood. Between naps, I played along with the contestants on the screen, sipping my soup from a mug and enjoying that cold apple juice. My only responsibility for that day was to rest so I could feel better, and since I allowed myself to do so, I was back on my feet in no time at all.
When we aren’t feeling well, I think it’s important to slow down and treat ourselves with kindness and love, and perhaps indulge our inner child a little.
How would you spend your ideal sick day at home?
Christen Hammons is the editor-in-chief of Bella Grace magazine. She lives in Orange County with her husband and their two rescue dogs.